O VELHO “GALINHA”! ( ANCORADO NA ADOLESCÊNCIA)!

Alfredo é uma pessoa divertida, com senso de humor requintado, capaz de ficar horas seguidas dançando e falando de mulher, seu tema preferido. Dia destes, sentada em um botequim muito bem frequentado, no centro da cidade, conheci essa “figura”! Acho importante descrever o seu visual, para se formar a ideia da imagem física dele. Possui mais ou menos um metro e oitenta de altura, cabelos ralos e brancos, postura meio curva. Seu rosto tem muitas marcas do tempo, com um par de olhos esverdeados e meio caídos. O que chama a atenção é o brilho que esse olhar ainda contém e o sorriso maroto que exibe seus dentes meio amarelados pelo tempo. Eu estava com uma colega, também psicóloga, tomando um suco, depois de um dia de trabalho. Conversávamos sobre a viagem que faríamos no próximo fim de semana. Estávamos tão envolvidas com o tema e, nem percebemos que Alfredo, na maior “cara de pau”, tinha puxado sua cadeira e se sentado ao nosso lado. Percebi sua presença no momento em que ele sussurrou em meu ouvido ” Não sabia que Anjos falam”! Levei um susto! Quase caí da cadeira! Ele emanava cheiro de cerveja, seu hálito estava terrível. Logo comigo que não gosto de álcool! Diante da minha reação, ficou meio desconcertado mas não perdeu a pose! Se apresentou. Era uma pessoa prolixa! Começou a falar como um adolescente, papo empolgado e conquistador. Achei uma certa graça e fiquei com pena daquele homem. Acostumada a ouvir pessoas, dei uma certa atenção a ele. Queria entender um pouco mais sobre seu comportamento e talvez ajuda-lo. Minha amiga percebendo a minha intenção, pediu licença e foi ao banheiro. Por acaso estou desenvolvendo uma tese sobre” TEMAS DE COMPORTAMENTOS”! Dei espaço pra ele se abrir e falar de si. O que eu fui percebendo é que eu estava diante de um homem com idade bem madura, num psiquismo muito adolescente. Estimulei que falasse sobre sua história de vida e fui entendendo onde ficaram os “buracos” emocionais, de seu desenvolvimento psíquico. Despertou em mim uma certa compaixão. Ao contrário do que  foi buscar em minha mesa, ele encontrou a indicação de um caminho onde pudesse se descobrir. Se ele se crescer, talvez  haja tempo de conhecer o verdadeiro amor!

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