O PRAZER ESTÁ DOENTE! (MASOQUISMO).

Faço parte de um grupo de cinco  amigos dos tempos de universidade. Desde que nos formamos, há quatro anos, nos reunimos todo último sábado de cada mês. É sagrado! Na verdade só deixamos de nos ver, durante esse período, uma única vez.  Chovia torrencialmente!  Muito granizo e água, naquela noite. Não dava pra sair. Raios cruzando o céu,  faíscas violentas,  trovões barulhentos. Dava a impressão que o mundo ia acabar. Naquele sábado, resolvemos fazer o encontro por SKYPE.  Não foi tão divertido como de costume. Sem vinho, nem cerveja, não era a mesma coisa, mas, deu pra matar a saudade, de certa forma. “Bolamos um jeito”  diferente para a reunião do mês seguinte. Cada um dos integrantes escreveria  sobre um  ” Desejo oculto”, que seria exposto no  próximo encontro do grupo. (Talvez fosse legal falarmos de sentimentos pessoais e trocar experiências”. “Sem terapeuta para analisar)!  Aliás, temas emocionais sempre mexem nas pessoas. Esperei ansiosamente o próximo encontro. O dia chegou esperado, chegou lindo.. Ao contrário  do mês anterior. Sábado de sol. Noite estrelada. Lua  cheia, convidando encontro ao ar livre. Procurar algum barzinho animado. Foi o que fizemos. Lugar lindo. Todos empolgados. Cerveja gelada rolando.  Batidas de frutas variadas. Pizza. Brincadeiras. Exagero? Não fez bem! Pedro, o menos resistente para bebidas, quis falar de seu desejo oculto, vivenciado num sonho. Visivelmente alterado pelo álcool, começou a falar sobre preferências e qualidades na cama. Abriu sua intimidade. Expôs desejos com detalhes estranhos, preferências masoquistas, que lhe davam incrível prazer. Descreveu o  sonho mobilizador que tinha tido com  “Clara”, uma de nossas amigas da turma.( Ele sempre teve uma queda por ela). Clara, por sua vez,  não estava nem aí, com ele. Clara,  sorrindo, ouvia a narrativa, tentando ser simpática. ( O relato foi tomando proporções invasivas, causando certo desconforto na turma). Irremediavelmente gozador, Pedro, foi relatando  sexo obsceno, com cenas explícitas.  Revelou ao grupo, sem nenhum constrangimento, sua predileção em  apanhar e ser chicoteado, no momento da transa, e, que Clara, tinha correspondido plenamente aos seus desejos. Comentou que apanhar até sangrar aumentava ainda mais o seu prazer! Debochado, disse que no sonho, Clara presenteou-o com mais de vinte chibatadas. O relato foi ficando cansativo e pesado. “Caipirinha rolando solta”. A turma em coro gritando para ele parar.  Clara, estava se contendo para não explodir. “O que de início foi engraçado  se transformou em invasão a sua pessoa”. Raiva absurda, crescente!  De repente, ela não se conteve. Em alto e bom tom, disse:-Cala a boca seu babaca! Não admito ser  invadida desse jeito. Constrangimento geral. (Chamou-o de doente e desestruturado emocionalmente). Pedro, com expressão esquisita,  calado,  levantou-se. Foi embora.  Acabou a noite, para todos! Acabando de chegar em casa, o telefone tocou. Estranhou pelo horário. Duas e meia da manhã.  Quem seria? Do outro lado a voz inconfundível de Pedro. Sóbrio, pedia desculpas. Mil perdões! Disse que tinha  brincado e exagerado. A malvada pinga recebeu a culpa. Disse que não esperava aquela reação  da Clara. Nem do grupo. Não achava que tinha ofendido ninguém. Apenas contou um sonho divertido e normal.  “Sexo, dor e prazer!” Nesse instante, interrompi Pedro e dei razão a Clara. Aproveitei para falar de  minhas últimas leituras sobre masoquismo. Indiquei à ele. Comentei ser importante ele conhecer causas e efeitos desse tipo de preferencia, segundo a psicologia. Sobretudo indiquei o estudo de Reich sobre a couraça muscular do caráter e suas funções. Falei rapidamente, do  caráter masoquista na visão de Reicheana.  Pedro, ficou num longo silêncio. Apenas ouvindo! Respeitei. Finalizei, dizendo que Clara era muito delicada e genuína ao expressar emoções.  A forma que ele usara como abordagem sobre seu sonho, tinha sido muito invasora e agressiva. O inverso do que uma mulher romântica  e sensível espera de um homem estruturado. (Sentimentos saudáveis vêm de dentro para fora). Não precisam de chicotadas. “NASCEM NO CORAÇÃO”!

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